What are you looking at? Vs. What do You See?
Sometimes when people ask the first they are really screaming the second...
Doesn't everyone want to be seen?
Why does it matter what way we are seen if it's all the truth?
So why don't we want to be seen sometimes?
Why do we find ourselves starring?
My thoughts: We arn't always at our best. So sometimes dressing up is actually a way of hiding. So when people look, we think they judge, and we get defensive because we can't hide who we really are at the moment. So when we see people when they are not at their best, try not to stare. Try seeing past the facade at the person who would like to be better, and offer a hand.